This post is not sexual to say the least, but as a woman I have to address this at once. Let me put down my tea first…

There is a woman who killed her 12 year old daughter Karissa because her man gave her and ultimatum-either him or her daughter goes. Now, I know (at least I feel) that none of my readers are capable of murdering their own children, I do know that there are some women out there that put their man first before their kid. Which is a damn shame!

I have at least two cousins that were affected by their trifling mother’s ways. One grew up to be a major whore (her words not mine) because her mother always would bring all her many many boyfriends back to her place. Her mother always partied at the home, blah,blah,blah, you get my drift. Well, one night one of her mother’s men decided to make a pit stop into the little girl’s room on his way to the bathroom . And he helped himself to all her goodies.

A little child! My GOD!

Even when she told her mother, her mother did not believe her and it continued to happen. Leaving emotional scars for life, my cousin has never healed. Another her mother KNEW that her husband was having sex with both of her daughters. She -the mother-even heard noises coming from the room as the daughter tried to push her father away. What did the mother do? Continued to peel her potatoes. When she approached her mother about it the mother told her to keep quiet cause back in those days a “good”man was hard to come by.

I hate it when I see triffling women sucummb to their eqaully triffling boyfriends. Why? I always told you that people have a knack of showing their true side as soon as you meet them. Get a backbone. You need to ask yourself aren’t you and your child worth it. I know I am. I could never do that to my child. It would tear me apart. It is so disheartening to realize that many children will never grow to have a voice of their own. 

Are some women out there emotionally stunted??? What makes you think that you can’t get a better man. I don’t care how many kids you got! I have one fam member and she got like seven kids and men still give her the time of day.  Stop pinning away of what could have been work on the NOW and aim to strive of a better what could be.

On the flip side, I know that my cousin has a choice to let her past govern her present and future. It is her choice. And she chose to continue this pattern. I know that you never know what it is like to walk a million miles in someonelse’s shoes. But, honey I think it’s time to get dem a new pair.

i met this wonderful woman once who never sacrificed her life when she had her child. It was actually her choice. She went out and sought it. She looked at her child as an enhancement on her life. She knew that she would need money for bottles, diapers, eventually daycare. But, for some reason when she opened her mouth against everyone’s opposition out came the positive. 

i don’t know why I am hurting over this child that I did not have. I did not carry her. I only heard about her story today (I hate watching the news).

I would like to dedicate one of my older videos (the only two I got…for now) that I released (before my nervous breakdown) called Mother’s Child. I wrote it after I had to deal with a trifling nigga you can watch it here on Youtube.com

http://ca.youtube.com/watch?v=39Zn_RbM59c

ciao, Luc.

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