I always ask at different points of my life-”what would Jesus do?” If someone bitched slap me so hard that it busted my lips -”what would Jesus do?”

I could never think that Rihanna would read this post, but I would hope that if someone who is in her position would.  I have done many a things in my life that even I have to look back and questioned it. I would hate to look at RIRI and pass it off as being young. But, we have girl children coming up behind us and we have to set an example. NO MAN’s COCK could be missed that much OR SORRY’S should be accepted. I would feel embarrassed to have accept anything less. Especially in the eyes of the world.

I have been bitched slap twice in my life. By two different pussies. Both situations came out of no where. But, when I look back at our histories together I realized that it really in the end came as no surprised. I have always shared with you that people show you who you are within a very short time of meeting them.  I fought back. Hard. And one time I was holding my child as I fought and ran for safety.

Why go back?

Have we all forgotten that we are all the chosen ones the prophets spoke of. We are all a reflection of Jesus in God’s eyes. I know that  HE does not expect anyone of his children to be battered.

Apparently, Chris Brown has hit her several times before and the violence had been escalating. Thank GOD that someone had heard her pleas.

Yes, her bruises healed.

And Rihanna thanked us for all our support???

WTF???

Rihanna needs to photocopy and post that pic from TMZ and place it in her wallet, all over her yard; hell, put it in a nice picture frame.  The point is why go back if it was so easy to forget. She also needs to realize that this is “makeover campaign” time for him.  People are always sorry when they done something wrong. It is in our chemical make-up. I think what Jesus meant when he said to turn the other cheek was to forgive and release the pain someone caused you so that you can be free of the burden. But, by no means did HE mean that you should accept that person back in your life.  Momma always said once a player, always a player, once a beater, always a beater. Que sara sara.

You can’t say that we are all quick to judge. I now realize why everyone can’t stop talking about it. Because you see yourself in her, or your mother or your cousin, daughter, sister or friend.  We don’t have to know what started it. First the picture and then the police accounts painted everything as plain as pie. It breaks my heart to think that we all can’t be fierce. We have such strong people today who are going through economic pressures, living in tents, taking handouts, being desperate. But, through all that, there is some fierceness that keeps them going.  It is the same fierceness that kept me going back then AND now.

Someone has to break the chain.  Rihanna is so lucky to be in the position to educate and inspire women. GOD always has a way of using us to teach the masses.  It is a damn shame if the rumours are true that she got back together with him. A damn shame.

When I realized back then that taking the short cut out of living is not an option.  So is not dying a slow death, which is what many of us, like Rihanna, CHOSE to do every day.  When all we have to do is remember that we are Spirits who are having an earthly experience and we are meant to be free, we are meant to be loved, meant to share and meant to inspire.

Also, Rihanna, or to anyone out there that is being hurt at this moment. Is that there are many women-girlfriends and mothers who are silenced. We all some how got to them too late.

Robin Fenty needs to ask herself who does she love more. I would hope she would say herself.

I know I do. And I hope you do too.

Lucresia