Possums, I know that I seem to write about the single girl, the married girl, the girl in the relationship or the girl seeking one, but what about the girls whose only relationship is the one with their Sugar Daddy.

Remember the good old days when men took you out and paid for everything.  And if you put out and did position no. 49 and 68 repeatedly, he would cover your rent, and maybe even a nice car? We know that this still goes on. But, with shows like the Girl’s Next Door and the exposés of wealthy men in the media, this tried and true arrangement is not sacred anymore.

I have a relative that use to thrive off of taking care of his women. I think it stemmed from seeing his mother being treated a certain way during his childhood. I, however, as young as I was,  I picked up on this. He never liked them to get too “independent”. You could always pick out his women at a party. They were always dressed better and acted refined, surprisingly.  Yes there was a type! I used to always befriend them, cause I knew that they wouldn’t last until my parent’s next house party or maybe because the other women present would never pay them no mind.

Although, I never had a sugar daddy (sigh…whatever, like you wouldn’t have wanted help during the tough times), I always wondered, if I had one how would I maintain that relationship?

So I dug down deep, but on the other girl’s stilettos and came up with these gems:

Tell Him What to Do- Some men like you to order them around. Some men like you to talk dirty to them. This is okay. I would only worry if he wanted you to talk to him like you are his mother, then that is bridging on to something crass and weird.

Followed quickly by the next one….

Tell Him What He Wants to Hear- If he is gorgeous and buffed (well done you!), but is too wrapped up in his career for something more and just wants a kept woman, then make sure to compliment him every time you see him.  It doesn’t have to be about his looks. You can compliment him on his new shirt or shoes. And if he is short and fat and looks like a hobbit…well, maybe you won’t be able to compliment him on his style, but maybe on his glasses, or his suspenders, or his nice collection of science-fiction novels fought fiercely on E-Bay. Non?

Address the Rainy Days-Make sure to stock some money away for the rainy days. Make sure you get everything in your name, in case everything goes belly up. This should include the car, the house, or condo. How?  Tell him that it is best if everything goes in your name so that there is no paper trail for his wife or girlfriend no.1 to find out. Many a young girl can live off the interests of the things they get from their sugar daddy.

Many a girl.

Not that this has happened to me.

It is just a for instance.

Next Post…How To Take Care Of Your Sugar Daddy Part Deux

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