1. And I wanted to write this post for those who somehow find themselves in a loveless relationship or marriage. Those who find themselves in a place where love has changed to routine and you have to question yourself, “Where did it go?” I personally know people who this has happened to and I wish that I could remind them that love is never fleeting, lust is. People these days feel that love is suppose to hurt or love is not suppose to feel exciting as the first time you met. I beg to differ. If you are in love, you are suppose to find yourself in a place where it is exciting to find another aspect of your partner. Turn them loose. Shake them down. Find another part of them that you never knew about. Don’t let things get too routine. That is why God made lovemaking. It is suppose to be a journey between two people that love each other and aim to bring each other to new heights.

2. When was the last time that you really caressed yourself? A lot of people feel weird when they mention the word “Masturbation”. They associate many a terrible things with it. Why not call it “caressing” instead. Caressing is a part of taken care of you and when you realized the amount of pleasure you can receive all by yourself, you will think twice about having to settle for a horrible relationship. Please, my dear Possum, love thy self.

3. Have you talked about Couple’s counseling? If I could count the amount of times that my mother tried to get my father to go to see someone together, I would have to turn into an alien and grow more than one hundred fingers! It never worked. It’s like the phrase has a disease or something. And you can’t even withhold sex to get the other person to go anyways, cause you probably were not having that much in the first place. Why not go by yourself? It never hurts to work on yourself. This will build up your strength and courage to do right by you, for once.

4. Get a life! Go out and find some of your own friends. This works beautifully! My father was never a man that liked to take his wife out, at all! I am not going to say, that if you knew my mother you wouldn’t want to spend extra time with her either, but I won’t…not on record anyways! I noticed that after many years she got tired of hearing about the fun jaunts that her friends went on, while she stayed at home. Then my mother did something so simple, yet so remarkable-she started to go out with her friends. All day, every day, even on Sundays! Now, when I go home to visit, the first thing my father asks if I know where my mother is; that’s if he hasn’t call me first! Even though he acts nonchalant you can tell it bothers him to the core. Love it!

5. Recite a prayer. Recite many prayers.  Possum go out and get yourself some prayer beads. Sometimes you need pray to give you strength where you know that deep down inside you just might have it. Pray that other person will change, pray that you will change, pray that the situation will change, pray that you will have the sense to realize that you are more precious than you think you are and when you leave, you won’t see it as a loss, but as a gain…of your senses.

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